My boyfriend just likes traditional sex. Tilt your pelvis forward and spread your legs as far as you can. We are suddenly connected — her vulva and my finger. Quit using a vibrator.
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Start building a list in your head of the techniques that make you feel the most pleasure. You might be thinking, “twenty to thirty minutes? how the hell am i supposed to fit that into my schedule?” it’s natural to feel some resistance, and you may have to remind yourself why you’re doing it.